James A. knows firsthand that
following and trusting an all-knowing entity greater than oneself will lead us
to extraordinary experiences. James was the most talked about veteran during
the recent viewing of the Vietnam Moving Wall in Grants. I am honored that he
trusted me to tell his story.
A member of the Sioux tribe, James
was born in South Dakota.
There were eighteen children in the family and fourteen lived to be adults.
Both his father and grandfather were Presbyterian ministers. James remembers
prejudice, almost hatred, between the Sioux and the white man.
Because the Bureau of Indian Affairs
could not pronounce tribal names they were changed to biblical ones. His father’s
name, Fights the Bear (because he was mauled by a bear) was changed to David.
His mother, Morning Dove, became Mary.
With such a large family, James
said, “I had to work to buy my own clothes and learned early that if I wanted
something I would have to work for it.”
He began working on a cattle ranch
when he was eleven. After being shamed by a boy for wearing a second hand shirt
he had purchased, James vowed he would always have money to buy new clothes.
In school James was interested in sports. He
was a runner, played baseball and basketball and participated in track. Even
though he was the only Native American in his high school, he does not recall
prejudice touching him. James joined the Marine Corps in 1957, shortly after
graduation.
Among other assignment s, James
volunteered for several tours of duty in Vietnam. His most harrowing
experience occurred in 1969 as a staff sergeant, in charge of seven men. They
were on a special operations mission.
James recalls, “We were given the
wrong maps and dropped off in them wrong location.” Their confusion lasted for
two months.
James trusted his training and his
spirit guide. He said their daily goal was to find a way out. Their biggest
concerns were ambush and heat stroke. The temperatures rose to 120 degrees
during the day, causing them to consume salt tablets like popcorn. They
traveled mostly at night because it was cooler, moving less than a mile each
night.
James said, “We survived off of
Mother Nature. We made water from leaves and ate snakes and lizards.”
As time went on the parents of the
men were informed they were missing in action and presumed dead or prisoners of
war. James finally led his men to a place he knew, ironically called Indian
Country. It took another month for the military to officially inform families
that the men were not dead.
James was not honored for getting
his men out alive. He was actually reprimanded for getting them lost, even
though it was not his fault. This might have caused an ordinary man to become
angry and give up. James rose above the injustice of the experience and moved
on.
During an ambush in 1971, James fell
behind a termite mound and was bitten by a cobra snake.
Reliving the experience, he said, “I
was in such intense pain I walked toward the battle field hoping to get a
bullet in my head or heart. Then my Indian guide took over and I forgot about
my pain.”
One by one James helped six fellow
Marines to safety. Others noticed the seriousness of his leg wound and he was
given needed medical care. He was recommended for the Navy Cross and awarded
the Silver Star. He still has mixed feelings about the award.
In 1972 James was wounded during a
medical evacuation and lost his right kidney as a result. He fought three
medical boards to stay in the service. He has had one failed kidney transplant
and has been on hemodialysis for sixteen years. He also suffered a stroke in
1986 due to the snake bite.
James retired in 1979 with the rank
of First Sergeant E-8. He and his wife, Louise, of Acoma
were married in 1970. At the time he was a recruiter for the Marine Corps.
James is very proud that one of his grandsons is planning to become a Marine.
Characteristics that are important
to James are honesty and respect. Even though he is retired he is still “a
dedicated Marine who believes in God, country and duty- in that order”. He
would like to see young men who are having trouble adapting consider the
military for new direction.
James made daily trips to the
Vietnam Moving Wall while it was in Grants. He was drawn to the wall because of
respect for his fallen comrades. Perhaps he was sent to touch the hearts of
people who were not in Vietnam
and still do not understand what happened there.
James knows that any material award
pales in comparison to knowing deep inside that he does his best every single
day to trust and follow his spirit guide. He is a real live hero we can all
learn from.
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